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Family dynamics can be like navigating a stormy sea, with waves of emotion crashing from all sides.
Balancing the high expectations of a religious family while maintaining personal freedom and identity?
That might be just like trying to sail through a hurricane.
The OP (original poster) fell in love with a wonderful woman, who the family simply adored.
The happy couple dated for 2 years and decided to get engaged.
Now, you might think a new baby would be a cause for celebration, right?
Well, not for this family.
They demanded the wedding be moved out of town to avoid public shame in theircommunity.
But our man wasnt having any of it and decided to go ahead with the wedding.
One by one,familymembers dropped out, each with their own ridiculous excuses.
With his family boycotting the wedding, the OP was left heartbroken.
It cant be easy.
Our guy broke down after the ceremony, feeling abandoned by his loved ones and betrayed.
His cousin tried to act as thefamilyspokesperson and mend the rift.
Wasnt my daughter the reason why the entire lot of them abandoned my wedding?
They often bring a strong influence to parenting, serving as valuable tools for parents.
Which is what happened to the OP, the moment his fiancee got pregnant before their wedding.
While forgiveness can be healing, it doesnt mean allowing toxic behavior to continue.
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