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Among the many things that can be offensive to any person, mistrust stands out.
We solemnly swear to be together until death, in joy and sorrow and then demandpaternity tests.
We send an employee on vacation after a surgery and immediately find them areplacement.
Because, it would seem, who else but them should always morally support their children?
Even if they are long grown up.
But no and our story today is further confirmation of this.
This was the case this time too and this time the authors mom asked her to make a cake.
It must be said that our heroine has always had a rather tense relationship with her mom.
And the rest of her relatives didnt approve of her behavior either.
But the original poster is sincerely convinced that she is the injured party here.
So she decided to seek some support online.
Parents often choose one child who meets their expectations more andbehavecompletely inappropriately towards the other.
Or others, says Irina Matveeva, apsychologistand certified NLP specialist, whomBored Pandaasked for a comment here.
But, unfortunately, many outdatedparentalbehavior patterns are like that.
Its worth concentrating on herself, on her own needs and solving her problems.
As for the authors behavior, the commenters are also almost certain that she wasnt wrong.
You did the right thing by leaving when you felt like you could take no more.
You dont need to reply to those texts.
They didnt ask a question to reply to, one more commenter wrote.
They didnt offer an apology to accept or decline.
So what would you gotta reply to?
Ignore it and go on with your best life.
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