Below, youll find the full story, as well as some of the replies that invested readers shared.

But in reality, getting pregnant can be an incredibly complex, draining and expensive journey.

But one third of the time, the problem either cannot be determined or is with both partners.

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And one in ten couples still dont have a child after two years of trying to start a family.

Age also plays a part, of course, as womens fertility starts rapidly declining after they turn 35.

Not to mention the psychological impact that it can have on a woman to become pregnant and later miscarry.

Woman in a red sweater looks upset, while another gestures in the background. Babysitter conflict depicted.

So what can friends and family members do to support their loved ones struggling with infertility?

TheNational Infertility Associationrecommends making it clear that you care for and are there for the couple.

Its also important to know whatnotto do or say.

Text discusses a woman’s reluctance to babysit her sister’s kids due to a hurtful comment.

Dont tell the couple to relax or have a go at minimize the problem.

Never tell them that things could be worse or maybe its just not meant to be.

Be careful not to make a run at problem solve either.

Text message discussing pregnancy issues during fertility journey.

Its probably safe to assume that theyve already considered all of their options.

Check out the results:

Text exchange about woman refusing to babysit sister’s kids after being told not to value motherhood.

Text discussing a family group chat about pregnancy and fertility medication.

Text reading, “I told her I had no idea and if she had wanted to announce I wouldn’t have blamed her,” expressing surprise.

Text describing a conversation where a woman is told she’s meant to be a babysitter, not a mother.

Text discussing babysitting and supporting a sister during childbirth, implying familial support roles.

Text exchange discussing feelings about being seen as a babysitter, not a real person with her own needs.

Woman looking frustrated on a couch while holding a phone, relating to unwillingness to babysit sister’s kids.

Text excerpt about a woman feeling distant from her sister, who called her selfish for wanting more than being a babysitter.

Text about a family disagreement regarding babysitting duties and respect.

Text discussing mental health and therapy priorities amid relationship struggles, related to babysitter versus mother role.

Text conversation about babysitting kids, refusal to help despite sister’s request due to a doctor’s appointment.

Text exchange about woman refusing to babysit sister’s kids, citing a previous disagreement.

Text exchange about a woman’s refusal to babysit sister’s kids, causing tension.

A woman in a gray top looks surprised while holding a test, conveying an emotional moment related to babysitting and motherhood.

Two women on a bed, one comforting the other.

Reddit comment thread discussing refusal to babysit sister’s kids after insulting remarks.

Comments discussing babysitting, fertility, and family issues on a Reddit post.

Reddit discussion about a woman’s decision not to babysit her sister’s kids due to a hurtful comment.

Reddit user comments discussing why a woman’s husband should watch their kids, focusing on babysitter expectations.

Reddit comment criticizing someone’s opinion on a babysitting conflict.

Reddit comment discussing responsibility for watching kids, suggesting the dad should babysit.

Reddit comment expressing opinion on responsibility, suggesting a woman shouldn’t feel obliged to babysit her sister’s kids.

Text commentary on woman’s refusal to babysit, discussing family roles and expectations.

Comment discussing lack of empathy and compassion in childcare situation.

Reddit comment criticizing a dismissive sister over babysitting boundaries.

Comment discussing a brother’s similar remark about babysitting, with user reflecting on 9 years of change.

Reddit comment about a woman refusing to watch her sister’s kids, highlighting family tension.

Comment supporting woman’s decision not to babysit sister’s kids after disrespectful remark.

Comment thread discussing entitlement and boundaries in family relationships.

Comment on refusing to babysit after being mistreated by sister, expressing need for an apology.

Reddit comment discusses babysitting, questioning why a sister doesn’t trade babysitting hours or involve her husband.

Reddit comment advising a woman to block her rude sister and prioritize her journey to becoming a parent.

A comment discussing a woman’s role in babysitting and motherhood, expressing opinions on family dynamics.

Comment discussing a woman refusing to babysit after being told she’s just a babysitter, criticizing her sister’s behavior.

Reddit comment on not watching sister’s kids, emphasizing lack of sympathy in family struggles.

Comment expressing support for a woman refusing to babysit after being told she’s only meant to be a babysitter.

Reddit comment discussing a woman’s refusal to babysit her sister’s kids.

Comment criticizing a sister’s entitlement and urging to block her, offering support for a fertility journey.

Text supports woman refusing to babysit sister’s kids, promotes self-care.

Reddit comment about refusing to babysit, suggesting saying, “I’m not a great babysitter and you are better off without me.”

Reddit comment about family disagreements over babysitting duties.

Text conversation discussing babysitting expectations and resentment.

Comment discussing relationship with sister and babysitting, suggesting passive negativity toward her future.