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Finding out that someone you love isengagedcan be almost as exciting as being proposed to yourself.

What kind offoodwill you serve?

How many people will you invite?

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And what will you and your partner wear?

It can become overwhelming quickly.

If youre paying that much, you better be getting the best day of your life out of it!

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And of course, you want to be looking your best on your wedding day too.

But you certainly dont need to spend $7,000 to find a gorgeous wedding dress.

According toThe Knot, brides in theUnited Statesspent an average of $2,000 on their gowns last year.

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Some brides pay themselves, some rely on parents, and others share the cost.

So is it common to be spending $7,000 on a wedding dress?

Thats a hefty sum, Jhona noted.

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Most brides I work with budget between $1,500 and $3,500.

But if a bride has the budget for a couture gown, $7,000 isnt unheard of.

Designer dresses can carry sky-h**h price tags.

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Attending weddings can be super tough.

First, Jhona recommends being emotionally prepared.

Know that the day might stir up emotions, so have an outlet ready afterward, she shared.

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[And] be honest.

If the wedding will bring up too much, its okay to skip.

Its also a good idea to focus on the couple.

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Shift your focus to their happiness.

It helps to put your own memories aside and celebrate their love.

I know its easier said than done, but just try your best, Jhona says.

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For the bride and groom planning the wedding read our tips abouthow to seat your wedding guests.

Helping with a wedding when you have unresolved trauma is extremely tough.

It can trigger emotions and leave you feeling really overwhelmed.

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If youre not ready to dive into wedding-related tasks, it might be best to pass, Jhona shared.

Is there anything the bride can do to make her loved ones more comfortable?

As for the bride, she should be sensitive to the emotional states of her loved ones.

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For more about this read our post about theimpact of social media on relationships and breakups.

Check out the results:

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