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A womantearfully shared the disappointing outcome of apartyshe had organized in an attempt to bond with potentialnew friends.

Nevertheless, after spending so much time and so much money preparing for this party, only seven RSVPed.

The TikToker further explained: Its just discouraging.

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I dont blame anyone.

Im just sad right now; I just need to cry.

Its also known as a dream board or goal board.

“It’s So Hard To Make Friends”: Woman Breaks Down After Throwing Lavish Party That No One Went To

But I am always thankful afterward that I made myself go.

Someone else penned: Do it virtually!

Youve gained so many besties.

“It’s So Hard To Make Friends”: Woman Breaks Down After Throwing Lavish Party That No One Went To

Creating the virtual versions, incredible!!!

A viewer stated: I am an introvert and a homebody.

This was a good message for me to hear.

“It’s So Hard To Make Friends”: Woman Breaks Down After Throwing Lavish Party That No One Went To

A separate individual chimed in: Normalize following through.

Im sorry that happened sis.

Beka is reportedly single and has always desired to make deep connections in a community setting.

“It’s So Hard To Make Friends”: Woman Breaks Down After Throwing Lavish Party That No One Went To

We werent meant to walk the world alone.

I moved from Atlanta to Sacramento right after the pandemic.

I had a wonderful community life Id built in Atlanta and I was missing that.

“It’s So Hard To Make Friends”: Woman Breaks Down After Throwing Lavish Party That No One Went To

She explained: Everyones kind of settled with their friends and in their ways.

And so, that was kind of what I was trying to do.

Not everyone has community, Beka toldPeople.

“It’s So Hard To Make Friends”: Woman Breaks Down After Throwing Lavish Party That No One Went To

I like being the kind of person to connect people.

She continued: Not everyone puts themselves out there like I do or tries to talk to people.

It felt like a no-brainer.

“It’s So Hard To Make Friends”: Woman Breaks Down After Throwing Lavish Party That No One Went To

According to theAdulting Reddit community, there are several ways to make friends in your 30s.

While some suggested joining a class, others swore by volunteering or joining abookclub.

I knit it took me 4 tries to find one where the average age was under 60.

“It’s So Hard To Make Friends”: Woman Breaks Down After Throwing Lavish Party That No One Went To

Bored Pandahas contacted Beka for comment.

Bekas video continued to draw positive feedback

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