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One of the best things thatmarrying couplescan do is be warm and friendly hosts to their guests.
Scroll down for the full story and the advice the internet gave the young man.
If you lean too heavily to either side, you risk upsetting either group of people.
Put yourself in their shoes and think about what would need to happen to keep them happy.
What can you do to see to it that theyre having fun all day (and night!)
What will make them feel included, welcome, and loved?
People like being liked.
Everyone wants to bevalued, adored, and respected.
And its the small things that matter.
For instance, you could consider their dietary needs when putting together the menu.
You could think about the logistics of everyone getting to the ceremony and reception venues.
You might want to show your affection by putting together small gift bags for everyone.
If its a big wedding with lots of guests, even a few brief interactions are precious.
A couple of kind words here, a thank you there.
There is no such thing as perfection where weddings are concerned.
Dozens of small things will inevitably go wrong.
The vendors might be late.
The decorations might be slightly off.
The color scheme of the flowers you picked out might be different than you imagined.
Some of your guests might make smallblunders.
Your significant other might lose one of the rings!
What really matters is that youre together with your partner, surrounded by the people you love.
Its the people, not the photos, that should be your priority.
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