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As the song goes, Its my party, and Ill cry if I want to.

However, the bride says she wasnt shocked by her grandmothers reaction, as shes known to be dramatic.

I posted this more to kind of vent and find out if I truly did anything wrong.

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It was nice to see I wouldnt be the only one feeling like this.

But the majority, about83% of brides, still go for a classic white gown.

Brittanicanotes that the white dress craze was largely inspired by Queen Victorias wedding dress in 1840.

Grandmother in a white sweater gesturing emotionally while seated in a living room setting.

When someone else shows up in white, its like an uninvited extra trying to steal the spotlight.

But if the guest insists, the real question is: is this a hill worth dying on?

But if its your sweet but clueless Nana, maybe let it slide, Jhona noted.

Bride’s request for grandmother not to wear white at the wedding sparks debate.

A well-placed No white, ivory, or creamunless youre the one saying I do!

on the invite keeps things crystal clear, she shared.

If you need inspiration, check out our7 Creative Wedding Dress Codes That Are in Fashion Today.

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However, Jhona warns that some guests may take dress codes as personal attacks.

We all have that one aunt who hates being told what to do, she noted.

The trick is in the wording: make it sound like a fun guideline rather than a military order.

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Heres a guide tochic mother-of-the-bride outfitsthat might just do the trick.

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Bride insists no white outfits at wedding, plans to inform security to enforce dress code, prioritizing her special day.

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