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Familycomes first, as were often told.
Now, years later, the in-laws are back, asking for help once more.
Lets just say their request didnt go over too well.
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This can make getting along with them a bit of a gamble.
When things go well, it can feel like youve gained another family.
In the UK, about1 in 10 divorces cite interfering in-lawsas a contributing factor.
Managing these relationships is challenging because it requires balancing your own feelings while being considerate of your partners emotions.
Tensions with in-laws can also make us feel neglected by our spouse, according to theRising Relationship Center.
When this need is met, we feel secure and fulfilled.
But a difficult in-law relationship can threaten that sense of belonging and lead to distress.
One of the most important things it’s possible for you to do is set healthy boundaries.
Understanding these dynamics can prevent overreactions and allowcouplesapproach these situations more calmly and effectively.
Moreover, its best to be thoughtful about how you express concerns about your in-laws to your partner.
Constantly pointing out their flaws can be hurtful.
Instead, it may be better to share your frustrations with a friend.
Finally, dont be afraid to limit time with unsupportive in-laws.
While its usually good to foster family ties, spending too much time with difficult in-laws can harm yourmarriage.
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