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Good teammates are important in the workplace.

But what is the extent of being a team player?

Should you sacrifice your personal life and well-being?

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As the absurdity of the situation was familiar to other people, her story soon took off online.

Yet, ironically, those who are easily pressured into feeling guilt actually make the most terrific employees.

Their peers also perceive them as better leaders.

Woman relaxing with a book and coffee, illustrating feelings of not being a team player.

The researchers also concluded that guilt-ridden people are more loyal to their workplaces.

For example, they were less likely to protest layoffs and would carry them out more dutifully.

In his research, Flynn hasnt found guilt-prone people to be more stressed or to have lower job satisfaction.

Manager criticizes employee for not working on day off after half the team is fired.

He says that guilt-ridden people are perhaps more selfless.

The guilty are more willing to make charitable contributions and assist colleagues in need, he pointed out.

There seems to be a link between guilt and positive social behavior.

Text message from boss asking employee to work on day off due to team being busy.

Many of us have probably experienced guilt-tripping at least once in our lives.

For example, your mom probably guilt-tripped you intobabysittingyour little brother or the neighbors kid.

Workplace thought leader Liz Ryansuggeststhat managers sometimes take advantage of the more easily guilted.

Text discussing team dynamics, with a response about prior plans and unscheduled workdays.

According to her, It takes two to tango!

She emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries.

Learn to say, What youre suggesting wont work, but how about this other solution?

Employee checking phone, concerned expression, reflects tension at work, uncertainty after team layoffs.

Practice saying it in front of the mirror if that helps you.

Many commenters sympathized with the employee and dragged the manager: A pouting child

Thanks!

Check out the results:

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Text reads about boss questioning employee’s reliability and stating true team players step up, implying lack of team support.

Employee discusses lack of benefits and boss firing half the team, expressing frustration over unpaid loyalty expectations.

Employee in office with tablet and laptop, reflecting on team dynamics and leadership decisions.

Employee exhausted at desk with computer displaying charts, reflecting lack of team player sentiment.

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Comment on short-staffed managers criticizing team player commitment.

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Text in online forum criticizing a manager for poor scheduling and communication skills.

Reddit comment reacting to layoffs, questioning where the team is after half were fired.

Comment on team player in response to boss firing workers.

Text comment about a boss firing half the team, sarcastically questioning team player actions.

Reddit comment advising an employee, affected by boss’s actions, to seek new opportunities.

Comment on employee issue with staff shortage and team dynamics.

Reddit comment discussing an employee being labeled “not a team player” for not working on a day off.

Comment highlighting employee loyalty in response to team dynamics.

Comment discussing workplace reliability and scheduling issues.

Employee responds to boss firing half the team, questioning reliability and workload expectations.

Text explaining a manager’s poor handling of employee availability.

Comment on boss firing employees, questioning team loyalty.

Employee criticized for prioritizing personal time over work commitment; boss accuses of not being a team player.