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One of the many ways that friends make us happy is they celebrate our victories.

However, when Reddit userCreepystuffthrowgot engaged to the man she was dating, her bestie wasnt stoked about it.

Taking to the Am I the [Jerk?]

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community, the woman expressed her sorrow about the unexpected turn of events that followed the joyous occasion.

But why do Julie and other people do it?

First, each participant rated their and their partners personalities and summarized their own poaching experiences.

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

The researchers then evaluated each person according to the Big Five and Dark Triad personality traits.

On the other hand, the women most successful at poaching showed high extraversion, openness, and psychopathy.

Confidence can also play a part.

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

An individual might also poach because they do not think highly of themselves, hetoldBest Life.

Check out the results:

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts

“I Wasn’t Pretty Enough To Deserve Him”: Man Exposes Fiancée’s BFF, Hits Her Where It Hurts