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Theres no such thing as a perfectwedding.

it’s possible for you to have an amazing, magical, fantastical celebration of love.

You might not be able to avoid these issues, but you might control how you react to them.

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Its important not to let small problems ruin your Big Day.

However, despite knowing all of this, some moments can provoke you to clash with your loved ones.

One anonymous brideaskedthe AITA community for its thoughts on her actions at her wedding.

Woman examining a sparkly wedding dress in a boutique, showing her highlighted nails.

She shared how she threw her cousin out whopossibly spitefullydecided to wear a gold dress at an all-white wedding.

Dress codes are there to set the tone for the wedding.

Specifically, that the guests mightnot respectthe hosts rules all that much.

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One of the biggest wedding guest attire mistakes is… wearing white.

Of course, unless expressly told otherwise.

One rule every guest should know when attending a wedding is that you absolutely cannot wear white.

Text about bridal party choices for a wedding, mentioning exception for a 16-year-old niece in a child-free event.

Furthermore, wedding guests should also think about their personal comfort, not just about their looks.

Its also useful to have a jacket or scarf on hand, just in case.

And lets not forget about your shoes!

Bridesmaids dress shop confusion over niece’s outfit at wedding.

Thats what happened to the anonymous bride.

She shared how her cousin insulted her figure while helping her pick out the bridal dress.

Later, however, feeling bad, she allowed her cousin to attend the wedding after all.

Text about a wedding disagreement involving a cousin and a bridesmaid role.

This may have been a mistake because it led to even more drama and tension within the family.

The bride then demanded that her cousin be kicked out of the celebration.

This then sparked even more tension within the family.

Cousin in a sparkling gold dress holds a champagne glass at a wedding reception.

Heres their take on the family drama

However, other readers disagreed.

From their perspective, the blame lay elsewhere

Thanks!

Check out the results:

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Text about a woman who reinvited her cousin to the wedding after a fight.

Text recounting a woman’s regret after reinviting her cousin to the wedding, cousin wore a gold strapless dress.

Text discussing a wedding incident where a cousin wore gold instead of white, leading to a dispute about dress code adherence.

“I Wanted To Cry”: Bride Embarrasses Cousin By Having Her Thrown Out By Security For Her Dress

“I Wanted To Cry”: Bride Embarrasses Cousin By Having Her Thrown Out By Security For Her Dress

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Wedding guest violates dress code, creating drama after being reinvited by the bride; discussion in online forum.

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Comment discussing wedding guest attire norms and personal opinions.

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Comment about cousin’s reaction to child not being allowed at the wedding with regretful sentiment.

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Text comment discussing a wedding situation where the cousin wore a bright gold dress against the bride’s wishes.

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Comment discussing a breach of wedding dress code after reinvite, criticizing deliberate choice of wearing gold.

Comment discussing a bride’s decision after a cousin’s inappropriate wedding behavior.

Text discussing a child-free white-themed wedding with a narrow dress code causing upset.

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Comment discussing wedding dress code disagreement and cousin’s outfit.

Reddit comment criticizing a woman for overreacting to her cousin’s dress choice at the wedding.

Screenshot of a Reddit comment discussing wedding guest attire etiquette.