How can you be in a marriage or even a relationship with someone you dont trust?
But, unfortunately, some people end up revealing their true colors too late.
Unless everyone involved is interested, it would just be in bad taste.
Plus, if everyone involved knows and consents, its not much of a prank in the first place.
Even worse, a marriage is still a legal procedure with its own rules and regulations.
Even more importantly, he was explicitly told not to do this.
Either way, OP deserved a lot better, particularly when she explicitly told him not to do this.
Sometimes, a relationship moves from a normal, trusting relationship toa low-trust relationship.
This is the result of one of the people in the couple no longer trusting their partner.
They will start to notice exclusively the things they dislike and see everything else through thefilter of their distrust.
Even positive acts will be seen as an attempt to regain their trust.
As one can imagine, this does not make for a healthy relationship.
Both for herself, if the relationship feels unixable, and perhaps even for Jake.
This could be the wake-up call he needs to get his own life together.
Hopefully, OP can get her life together and move on from this failed relationship.
Finding out that your husband cant be trusted a few years down the road would be a lot worse.
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