“I Hoped Someone Would Say They’re Proud Of Me”: Family Ruins Woman’s Celebration

For many recovering alcoholics, one yearsoberis a massive milestone.

Its a reason to be proud.

But when one womansharedthe news with herfamily, they were less than impressed.

Her mom told her not to expect praise for doing the bare minimum.

Her brother-in-law opened a bottle of wine.

The woman stormed out of the family dinner, but not before grabbing a cake shed brought.

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Its a common way in which recovering alcoholics mark importantmilestones.

The tradition was started by Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), a globally renowned 12-step recovery program.

They celebrate members milestones in meetings.

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From 24 hours sober to 10 yearssober, each accomplishment is seen as something to be proud of.

Nicholas Axcell is an addiction specialist and the Head of International Development for theHarmony Healthcare Group.

Its a hospital group specializing in treatingaddiction, dual diagnosis and psychiatric conditions.

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The expert says families dont always understand that the milestones are in fact a big deal.

Members of AA will often celebrate their sobriety birthdays with a cake and a ceremony during meetings.

Axcell says milestones can be marked with achip from fellowships, a cake, a meal with recovery friends.

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And doing so can help them to stay motivated during their recovery journey.

Its also good to provide support, help and companionship as the person works towards the next milestone.

Experts say its important to not be judgmental and to be an active listener.

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Opening a bottle of wine when they announce their one-year sobriety anniversary might very well be one of them.

Check out the results:

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“I Hoped Someone Would Say They’re Proud Of Me”: Family Ruins Woman’s Celebration

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