Thats howthis redditorwho wished to stay anonymous, felt four months before her wedding.
It wasnt the fault of pre-wedding nerves, but rather the questionable behavior of her fiance.
Naturally, we were curious to know what inspired her to take this online in the first place.
What pushed me to share my story isnt really inspirational.
I really couldnt believe my own mind and the things that I thought of.
I wanted to hear other opinions to understand if Im doing the right thing or not.
She also told us that there was an update to this story.
She received a cancellation from their wedding photographer, which made her believe that everything was completely over.
After all this, the original poster wishes she would have had more power to leave the relationship earlier.
But looking at it, maybe it was meant to be this way for a reason.
He is a doctor, and he was the one who found out my mom has cancer.
If I hadnt stuck around with him this long, I wouldnt be able to know it.
We got diagnosed last summer.
I recently went on a date, just to brush off everything and meet someone new.
The amount of kindness I received was unbelievable.
She signed off by giving some advice to others so they wouldnt end up in a similar situation.
We are better without low-quality men.
It may happen that relationship dynamics change, no matter how long the couple has been dating.
Therefore, she advises being aware of any dealbreakers, like being taken for granted.
Perhaps the person doesnt feel respected, heard, or included in the partners life.
Or there are too many arguments and failures to agree on one major topic.
Waiting to be officially committed in hopes of fixing things rarely works.
The issues usually stay the same, and the only change is that they are legally bound.
Allow each other to have some space to mull over everything thats happened.
Once the fact has settled down, figure out a way to break the news to family and friends.
Remember that your and your exs feelings should be respected and dealt with with sensitivity.
The majority deemed her right and even called her lucky to escape
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