Thats why thisRedditorcarefully chose her bridesmaids from her closest friends.
But her fiance had other ideas, insisting she include his sister in the lineup.
Understandably, she wasnt on board.
Her fiance, however, refused to accept her decision and responded with a full-blown tantrum.
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But the days leading up to it can be a whirlwind of stress.
Making that a reality, however, isnt always easy.
I believe weddings should reflect the couples relationship, Donohue tells us.
The wedding party (bridesmaids, groomsmen, etc.)
should ideally consist of those who have provided significant support throughout the couples journey.
If that doesnt include family members, thats perfectly acceptable; its the couples choice.
Wedding planning is stressful enough without adding difficult family dynamics into the mix.
One of the best ways to prevent unnecessary drama is to establish boundaries from the start.
Weddings should be about celebrating love and positivity, not placating those with opposing views, she notes.
Amid all the preparations and expectations, Donohue reminds couples to prioritize their well-being.
can help keep things in perspective.
After all, this day is about the two of you, not just keeping everyone else content.
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