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There are many reasons why abirth mothermight choose not to keep her baby.

Some are throughfoster care, others via adoption agencies.

She was being interviewed by her sister-in-law who is studying to be a social worker.

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But the interview took a surprising turn when her SIL got angry with her for being honest.

Now, shes wondering whether she should have declined the interview altogether.

Thats around 121 million a year,accordingto a 2022 United Nations Population Fund (UNPF) report.

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The UNPF has gone as far as calling it an unintended global crisis.

The organization says if your reasons arefinancial, there is help available.

They suggest talking to an adoption agency or social worker about this.

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The same applies if you lack food or shelter.

Once youve had an initial meeting with them, the process of finding adoptive parents will begin.

you’re free to also choose your birth plan and hospital.

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According to Adoption Choice,adoptive familiesare thoroughly screened, and this includes home visits.

you might discuss your hospital plans and other plans, such as post-placement contact, throughout your pregnancy.

Adoption Choice says contact is different in every situation.

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It can be via phone or video calls, texts, emails, or in person.

The legal hearing is usually held about a month after the birth, or after the paperwork is submitted.

Check out the results:

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