People online gave him a reality check and told him exactly how horribly he had screwed up.
The result, like in OPs story, is that many chose to forgo having kids at first.
By itself, OPs story wouldnt even be that bad.
He and his girlfriend were in agreement.
What is absolutely ignoble is to suddenly have a change of heart at a time when its quite impractical.
In general, it is good to split up when it comes to these sorts of questions.
Knowing that his information could harm the relationship, they keep it to themselves.
Research into this topic does suggest that generally,the final vetodoes go to the woman.
What complicates this issue is that our opinions are, for better or worse, not static.
Research shows that both genderswill often change their mindat some point.
An opinion isnt binary, you might have a preference but not a strong desire for something.
However, OP is nearly 60.
Even if he was quite healthy, he would not live to see his childs thirtieth birthday.
He stated that they were literally selling plasma at some point, and this woman didnt leave him yet.
