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Two words are all it takes to completely change someones life on the day of theirwedding.

Most would assume those two words are I do but not for this particularbride.

In a since-deleted post, she simply stated: Myhusbandruined our wedding day.

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For a little while, everything was good and the bride was very happy.

Until, of course, thegroomopened his mouth.

The content creator agreed and jokingly said, Hopefully I fit in the same dress.

Bride and groom exchanging vows in a rustic venue, elegant chandeliers overhead, symbolizing a pivotal wedding moment.

I died inside and froze like a statue, the woman said.

I just felt like I couldnt even breathe.

And it turns out, she wasnt the only one shocked by her new husbands comment.

Smiling woman in a soft-lit room, reflecting on past wedding day red flags, near a window.

My heart just broke.

I looked at the judge and he was floored.

My intuition is correct.

Woman reflecting on husband’s hurtful words that impacted her wedding day, revealing a red flag.

I am not crazy.

This is bad, said the TikToker.

He hated my guts from the beginning, the woman said.

Woman in red sweater sharing a story, with text about wedding day intuition in background.

I hope this helps [other people].

Comments were in support, regardless of the outcome.

She made her first viral video private, describing its publicity as icky

WAIT!

Woman in car reflecting on hurtful words, realizing they were red flags years later.

YOU GAVE YOURSELF POWER!!!

Its YOUR story not his now!

Remember that no matter what your decision is.

Woman discussing red flags in relationships, expressing hurt and reflection on betrayal trauma, sitting on a couch.

That video came across so self-empowered!!!

Post your story and what you want!

, another said in support.

Woman in a car, text overlay about husband’s actions, highlighting potential red flag in relationship.

I do think it was important to share, and Im glad you did.

Theres so many women who experience that and stay.

An additional user argued, No.

Bride holding bouquet, standing on balcony, evokes wedding day emotions and reflections.

just dont give up.

I needed to be educated.

I didnt know better either.

Tweet screenshot questioning why someone stayed despite hurtful words on wedding day.

But that is rarely the case.

According to the site, perhaps she fears for her life and the life of her children.

Perhaps she has nowhere to go.

Twitter post discussing modern norms for women after marriage, touching on societal red flags.

Perhaps others believe her abuser is a good guy and shes afraid shell face judgment and embarrassment otherwise.

Or perhaps she blames herself and believes she deserves to be abused.

Its time to stop the victim-blaming.

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