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The internet is, in some regards, a beautiful place.
And, sometimes, thats just as good.
And the lovely folks of the internet were there to support her in their own ways.
The internet might not solve all your problems, but it gives us a chance to vent.
OP did have a go at talk to her hubby, but that didnt work.
She suggested moving out on several occasions, but everyone was against it.
While she was still sick.
It was only natural that she snapped after all the exhaustion and disrespect.
It all went downhill from there.
Everyone immediately started making plans for her, deciding things for the babyher voice didnt matter.
So she packed her bags and left.
Shes been doing great since then.
Rents a spacious 3-bedroom house while shes waiting for the knot to be untied.
A sweet ending to an otherwise bitter story.
Theres nothing good that can ever come out of such a dynamic.
They didnt even have to lift a finger.
Neither did the hubby, minus him payingsomething.
The saddest part is that these are grown adults who were very self-sufficient before OP came into the picture.
Infidelity is the other one (60%).
Final Straw situations, however, are most often associated with reasons other than what OP went through.
Though, it is important to note that divorce rates have dropped in the last 20 years.
Then again, marriage rates decreased as wellfrom 8.2 to 6.0 respectively.
The decrease seems to be due to ashift in public attitudeabout marriage.
An increasing amount of people are starting to think of marriage as unnecessary.
So much so that back in 2010, 40% of Americans thought of it as obsolete.
So, what are your thoughts on any of this?
How would you have approached OPs predicament?
Do you agree with the communitys verdict?
Share your takes and stories in the comment section below!