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Vacationing with a partner by your side is total bliss.
Romantic dinners on the beach, wonderful activities, and new experiences can bring two lovers closer together.
But what if one is terrified of heights and the other is crazy for bungee jumping?
Or one doesnt like Mediterranean cuisine and the other loathes spicy food?
Do you stay inside all day watching soap operas and munching on tasteless salads?
RedditorBigappleparadeand her husband had a similar dilemma when deciding on a trip for their 10th anniversary.
The wife still booked it to the Caribbean, which her partner completely rejected.
Nevertheless, she decided to go just not with him but with another man.
This may be surprising to some, but it shows how modern relationships are dynamically changing.
She told us that There is no should or shouldnt when it comes to separate vacations.
She even shared a personal experience when choosing to go away without her husband was beneficial to their relationship.
For example, my father lives out of state.
My husband does not like to travel.
So we made an agreement that he would come with us once a year.
The other time or two times, I will take one kid or two, or go by myself.
Everyone is happy that way.
There may be various reasons why partners would choose to vacate alone.
long backpacking trips, going to see a concert somewhere, etc.).
The other may not want to use their precious vacation time doing something they are not particularly interested in.
Its even possible that one party may just enjoy traveling more than the other.
There are some spouses who dont really enjoy traveling and prefer to stay at home base.
Huynh notes that during it one partner may feel left out if the other keeps going on solo vacations.
And if too many memories are made separately, this can make the couple grow apart.
Huynh believes that It could be a sign of something deeper.
Or worse, maybe there are other people one might enjoy spending time more with than their spouse.
After her intervention commenters unanimously started shaming the husband
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