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A healthy romanticrelationshiprelies on give-and-take and a willingness to compromise.

She took to Mumsnet to share her tale of woe.

She concludes by asking the community whether thats being unreasonable.

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But what makes someone selfish?

We went looking for answers.

Bored Pandareached out to psychologistDr.

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online

Deborah Heckerto get her expert opinion on the situation facing OP.

Hecker added that his ineffective communication, however, is not his only shortcoming.

We asked Hecker for one piece of advice shed offer OP.

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online

She responded, Its easy to understand her anger towards her husband for his selfishness and inept communication.

It certainly doesnt sound like shes going to put up with his abhorrent behavior for too much longer.

Check out the results:

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online

Husband Expects Wife To Pander To His Last-Minute Whims, Abandon Her Plans, She Vents Online