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Boy meets girl, they fall in love, they get married, and bam, kids.
But what happens when one party is on board with it, and one isnt?
Thats exactly what todays Original Poster (OP) is facing.
But instead of reaching a peaceful resolution, their conversations turned into emotional tug-of-war.
While the OP always leaned toward being child-free, moments of self-doubt led to mixed signals.
Her husband, a self-proclaimed fence-sitter, assured her he would stay with her regardless.
But years later, that promise started to show cracks.
For her, it wasnt about how children entered their lives; she simply didnt want them.
But for her, no arrangement makes sense because her feelings on the subject havent wavered.
Adesina acknowledged that this can be a major challenge and often depends on personal experiences.
She also highlighted that factors likepregnancyrisks can play a crucial role.
If left unchecked, it will slowly erode the relationship, making reconciliation difficult, she cautioned.
Signs of growing resentment include withdrawal, frequent irritation, passive-aggressive behavior, and a lack of emotional intimacy.
According to Adesina, the key to addressing resentment is open communication.
If reconciliation isnt possible, she suggested that separation may sometimes be the healthiest option.
They also pointed out that delaying the inevitable will only lead to more wasted years.
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