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Oftentimes, it feels good to be entrusted witha secret.

Feeling conflicted about whether she should divulge the secret, the author asks the Reddit community for advice.

A relationship that lacks trust is doomed to fail.

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Certified Gottman TherapistDave Lechnyrbelieves trust is the foundation upon which all else is built.

In this scenario, it may help if the author told Amanda about what was happening.

Check out the results:

Young dog with a toy in mouth outdoors, reflecting an old-timers method of testing a woman’s nurturing skills.

Text discussion about a fiancée being “tested” as a potential mother with a dog.

Text discussing a couple’s engagement and relationship duration.

Text screenshot about a man named Rick working out of town, living with Amanda in their new apartment.

Text about a guy testing his fiancée’s parenting skills by getting a high-energy dog.

Text from a story about testing fiancée’s nurturing skills with a shepherd puppy.

Text discussing a woman’s feelings after a man gets a dog to test her suitability as a mother.

Text describing a conversation about testing a fiancée’s nurturing qualities using a dog.

Text discussing the “old timers way of testing a woman” by seeing her maternal potential through caring for dogs.

Text discussing readiness for children and family planning considerations.

Text discussing a man’s method of testing his fiancée’s motherhood abilities with a dog.

Text discussing how Rick tested Amanda for motherhood by observing her with a dog. Concerns raised about fairness.

Text discussing advice on whether Amanda’s friends are overprotective in relationship.

Two women in a kitchen, one holding a mug, discussing the old timers way of testing a woman.

Text update about discussing Amanda’s good mother potential.

Text discussing relationship advice and concerns about abusive dynamics.

Text describing a difficult friendship situation related to fears about losing a friend.

Text image discussing reaction to perceived abuse due to past experiences, illustrating old timers' way of testing relationships.

Text discussing gratitude and updates about helping a friend; relates to testing a woman with a dog.

Text update discussing a conversation with Amanda, influenced by advice from comments, about a sensitive topic.

Text about a conversation paraphrased regarding relationship dynamics and decision-making.

Text conversation about emotional honesty and understanding in a relationship test.

Text discussing accountability in understanding plans for parenting responsibilities.

Text from an article discussing testing a woman as a potential mother, highlighting support and friendship.

Text showing appreciation for support and useful wake-up calls, related to testing fiancée as a good mother.

“How Is That Fair?”: Woman Left Torn On Whether To Intervene In Man’s “Test” On Fiancée

Comments discussing testing if a fiancée would make a good mother by getting a dog.

Reddit comments discussing relationship tests and concerns about potential abuse.

Reddit comments discussing testing a fiancée with a dog to gauge suitability for motherhood.

Text comments discussing a man’s intentions and thoughts regarding birth control.

Reddit discussion about assessing a fiancée’s suitability for motherhood through a dog test.

Text exchange about testing a woman, advice given to communicate and start a conversation.

Reddit comments discussing a guy testing his fiancée with a dog, exploring relationship dynamics.

Reddit comments discussing relationship advice on testing a woman’s maternal instincts with a dog.

Reddit discussion on testing a fiancée’s maternal instincts with a high-energy dog breed.

Text exchange discussing a friend’s abusive relationship and hinting at revealing a secret plan.

Reddit comment advising on handling relationship issues, discussing using a dog to test a fiancée’s motherhood potential.

Reddit comments on testing a fiancée as a potential mother with a dog.

Text exchange discussing a guy and a dog testing a fiancée’s suitability as a mother, highlighting concerns and support.

Online discussion about using a dog to test if a fiancée would be a good mother.

Reddit comments discussing testing a woman’s suitability for motherhood with a dog.

Reddit comments discussing testing a woman’s mothering potential by getting a dog.

Text exchange discussing relationship advice and testing compatibility in relationships.