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Lets start with our relationship.
He never paid child support.
When he was there, he was very mean and didnt seem to want to be there.
He would send birthday and Christmas presents, but it was mainly my step-mom who sent them.
Start of the issue:
I got married in 2020 and was on decent terms with my father.
He walked me down the aisle, etc.
Afterwards, I had to get my birth certificate to change my name.
When I got it months later, I noticed only my mother was on it.
I mentioned it in a random phone conversation with my father that he was not on it.
He was slightly upset by this but never mentioned it again.
I told her not to sign them.
Its too late for me.
She didnt sign them and continued her life as normal.
July 2024: She called me at work early one morning.
She said she had just received a threatening phone call from my father about the papers.
I texted him about it.
He said they are state documents and she has to sign them.
I called vital records, and she is under no obligation to return or sign them.
I had lunch with my mother a couple of days ago and listened to the voicemail.
implying that I was not his.
My husband will handle anything medical.
If youre thinking inheritance, think again.
He lives off my step-mom and disability.
Plus, he has not tried to do this with my brother.
Could he be doing this for another reason?
I just need someone elses opinion.
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