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Hey Pandas, I need serious advice.
I (f14) have solid, concrete evidence that my father is cheating on my mother.
To my knowledge, my parents have a closed marriage.
So, he has a history of lying to us.
Here are a few thoughts and steps you might consider as you think about what to do.
Its natural to feel angry, sad, confused, or anxious.
Those feelings are valid, and its okay to take the time to work through them.
Ask yourself what you hope to achieve if you do choose to bring it up.
Sometimes speaking up helps to erase the air, but it can also lead to difficult consequences.
Think About BoundariesFamily situations like this can sometimes draw kids into adult issues that are hard to navigate.
Setting boundaries around how much you want to be involved might help you avoid feeling overwhelmed.
Seek Out SupportWhatever you decide, having someone you trust to turn to will help.
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