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My husband is in the military.
Weve been married for three years.
Hes getting out next year.
I recently left to teach a summer camp and left a dish on the counter.
Everything was fine except for a dish on the counter.
Me: Its a dish.
Want to talk about your dirty underwear on the floor constantly?
Or your starting venture of how many empty soda cans you could have on your desk?
I have no problem cleaning up dinner dishes and doing laundry as well as vacuuming and sweeping.
But I draw the line at picking up dirty underwear when its two feet from the laundry basket.
No, its the dish that is the issue.
Last month we were getting an apartment.
Ive never lived in an apartment, so I was excited and genuinely curious about how it worked.
Arent I lucky Im 26 years old and Ive never needed a money order?
So I had a lot of questions about it.
He said, If youre so stupid, Google it.
I said, kindly stop calling me stupid.
Then he yelled at me, Oh, youre just stupid.
Just shut up while I get this done.
I got really angry and raised my voice (wasnt yelling) and said, I am not stupid.
Just because Ive never done something doesnt make me stupid.
Ever since then, hes been saying Im a child and Im stupid.
Supposedly, hes getting out next year.
He got mad at me for buying groceries, freaking out that we cant afford this again.
Bank statements say 17 grand… Dont they get paid extra to house and feed wives?
Anyway, he sent his cat with me.
I hate cats, but its his.
All of moms cats are outside cats.
His cat was an inside cat.
The cat decided to use the bathroom in moms bed despite having a litter box.
Mom said the cat had to stay outside from now on.
So we set up a box with a blanket, food, and water for the cat.
Within a week, the cat was run over.
My husband freaked out and said my mom murdered his cat.
Also, shes six miles from town.
The town has a hospital, a sheriff, and some city buildings.
The school is in a different town further away.
This is a small country.
Me: Have you spoken to my mom about this?
Him: Youre her daughter.
We dont have to ask.
I take care of everything in the house.
Most 25-year-olds dont have 300 in the bank.
Why is he acting like we have nothing?
Thats plenty to rent a room out in town.
I suggested, Why dont we buy a house with his VA loan?
His response was, Why should we buy a house when your mom has a house?
Ive been trying to find a job, but I just dont want to do fast food or retail.
I have a masters degree and Id like to do something with my degree.
I apply to 5-10 jobs a day.
The last four jobs Ive had were the county fair, childcare, and customer service.
I hate customer service.
Im upset and angry and could use some unbiased opinions.
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