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Ive been with my husband for over 15 years.
We have three kids together.
Recently, we went to my in-laws for a birthday party, and he had a bunch of beers.
He thinks he can drive better than me when hes drunk.
I told him he didnt have to scream at me since I was sitting right next to him.
The kids started crying.
I dont know what to do.
Here are some things you could do or consider as you navigate this situation.
Prioritize Safety
The well-being and safety of you and your children are the most critical concerns.
Verbal aggression, especially in front of children, can have a lasting emotional impact.
Consider whether the current environment is safe and stable for you and your kids.
Acknowledge Your Feelings
Feeling exhausted, hurt, and unsure is entirely valid.
Express your concerns calmly and focus on how his drinking and behavior are impacting you and the children.
Avoid placing blame, as this can lead to defensiveness.
However, set firm boundaries about what you will no longer tolerate in your home.
Explore Support Options for Him
Excessive drinking often points to underlying issues like stress, depression, or trauma.
Take your time, seek professional and emotional support, and trust your instincts as you navigate this journey.
You deserve peace and stability in your home, and its okay to take steps to achieve that.
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