We have 5 (mine) + 4 (his) children.
A year ago, we separated because we were fighting all the time.
I am trying to raise the kids in a more gentle way.
I have been able to change his behavior a lot in 5 years but still, he is strict.
My husband also drinks a lot.
When I dont drink, its easier to ignore the things that would easily turn into a fight.
Both were drinking a lot.
I didnt realize early enough that it was going to be that way.
He started yelling and was getting aggressive.
My husband grabbed him by the neck and that made things worse.
When I said this to him, he got angry at me and walked to the car screaming!
My brother started walking home but he left his coat where his insulins were.
My daughter ran after him, and in 2 min my brother attacked her and threw her bag away.
My husband was about 40m away, he could see me.
I went to get my daughters bag and then my brother started attacking me.
My husband sat by the car.
Finally, after minutes, he walked to help, and we were able to leave.
In the car on the way back, I asked why he didnt help me right away.
And he can never do things the way I want (self-pity talk).
After that, he was quiet till we got home.
At home, he started the divorce talk again…
I even recorded one conversation.
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