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Hello, I need your advice.
We met 20 years ago and got married quickly, so weve been through a lot.
At the moment, the company is struggling, and were facing existential fears.
The ground floor is unusable the tiles and furniture are ruined.
We also have a large dog and a cat.
The cat, who is normally an outdoor cat, is struggling with the situation.
This is our situation so far.
They leave everything for me to do, and thats only part of it.
My husband leaves his clothes wherever he takes them off in the evening.
After showering, he leaves the towel on the floor.
Every weekend, he invites a friend over and expects me to cook and clean up afterward.
Before all of this, I was an artist.
I used to write stories, and Im actually very good at painting.
That was my life.
I havent painted in two years, and I havent written anything in even longer.
I feel like my life is moving on without me, and everything I once was is lost.
He wants to come home and relax, which I understand.
My daughter is now in upper school and has a lot to study.
She could help more, but shes a teenager, and I dont want to burden her too much.
She does her own laundry and walks the dog after school, which is good.
But I dont have many friends left.
They disappeared during my marriage.
I have one good friend, but she lives far away, especially since we moved into this house.
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