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I (15YO) am a bisexual trans guy.
Ive been out to my best friend (16M) for as long as weve known each other.
Well call him Simon.
To my knowledge, I dont think Abby and Simon have kissed on the lips, though).
I took offense to this.
Im not hardcore masc, but Im leaning more towards that and andro than towards femme.
We got into a fight and Im currently not speaking to him.
Here are five suggestions to help you approach this thoughtfully:
1.
Recognize Your Feelings
Its completely valid to feel hurt by Simons comment.
Reflect on Simons Perspective
Simons struggles with his own identity might have influenced his comment.
Communicate Openly
When youre ready, consider having an honest conversation with Simon.
This approach can encourage understanding without escalating conflict.
Set Healthy Boundaries
5.
Evaluate the Friendships Value
Ask yourself whether this friendship is providing you with the support and affirmation you need.
Surrounding yourself with people who validate and respect you is essential.
Youre handling a difficult situation with a lot of maturity and thoughtfulness.
Trust yourself to make decisions that prioritize your well-being and affirm your identity.
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