I (F30) and my wife (30) have been together since 2015 and married since 2022.
We have a newborn daughter and three dogs.
We are a happy little family.
My wife, lets call her Sandra, is very outgoing and easy to talk to.
Im more cautious and quiet.
Onto the story:
I have this friend (F30), whom Ive known since elementary school.
Lets call her Lisa.
We havent been in touch for 15 years.
In high school, we drifted to different friend groups, and I started to date this emo-style girl.
It was weird, but I didnt think about it too much at the time.
You know teenagers, they do radical stuff.
The lady looks surprised and introduces herself as Lisa.
She insists that we exchange phone numbers and get coffee sometime.
So, we agree to meet at a coffee shop.
We attempt to get Lisa involved by asking questions and talking about topics we imagine shed be comfortable discussing.
After an hour or so, we decide its time to go, which seems to upset Lisa.
Shes on the edge of tears as she tells how it all felt.
Then she starts talking about her dad: You remember my dad?
He wasnt that great…
Her tears start dropping, and I just have to stop her.
Lisa is still kind of overwhelmed and seems like she doesnt know how to proceed.
I was so uncomfortable and just said thanks and thats flattering.
On the way home, we discussed the meeting and were both kind of like, WTF just happened?
She wasnt mad at her; she found the whole meeting funnily odd.
I was adamant that I wouldnt want that punch in of meeting ever again.
I dont want her here.
I dont want her in our home and to touch our baby.
Sandra said thats a ridiculous and mean thing to say.
We are happy about our baby, but we dont accept any visitors.
AITA if I tell Lisa not to come?
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