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I am (40F) and my boyfriend is (36M).
Anyway, I usually set a budget every year to spend on everybody.
Money has been tight, and I thought sticking to the budget that weve set every year was reasonable.
He has never gotten mad about it before.
Needless to say, this has upset me.
Ive told him this and explained that our priority should be our daughter, not them.
When I bring up our daughter and Christmas, he brushes me off.
That hurt me deeply.
I guess Macey isnt family in his eyes?
Thanks for your opinions, everyone, and happy holidays.
Experts Advice
Id recommend addressing these issues through calm, open communication.
Choose a time when you both can talk without distractions.
Be clear about your concerns regarding the budget and fairness in how you approach the holidays.
Remember, healthy communication and mutual respect are essential for navigating these challenges together.
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