While they might not even realize this, they rarely make matters easier leading up to the big day.
However, she was quickly shut down, which pushed her to opt out of the celebration entirely.
However, they often do this with good intentions.
My best suggestion for the well-meaning friend orfamilymember is to ask if the couple would like some extra input.
Otherwise, it is best to keep the extra opinions quiet.
There are many decisions to make while wedding planning and well-meaning advice can quickly overwhelm the decision-makers.
The first step towards it is to establish healthy boundaries.
Johnson suggests, Set boundaries early in the planning process and stick to those boundaries.
If there are difficult people trying to interfere with the planning process, be honest with them but gracious.
It is important to have someone in your corner who will help you navigate those difficult people.
It takes some pre-planning but will be so helpful.
I also encourage all my couples to each have one person with whom they can openly share their frustrations.
Sometimes the couple just needs to share what is bothering them, and then it is gone.
This person can be a best friend, a parent, or a planner.
I am often the emotional sounding board for my couples as they navigate difficult relationships.
And finally, it is absolutely okay to not be responsible for everyone elses feelings and issues.
The couple should not be spending time trying to just everyone.
It is not possible and will just make everything so much more stressful.
Johnson concludes by saying, Wedding planning should be a joyous journey!!!
Every couple has an epic love story that deserves to be told in a unique and special way.
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