Im a genuinely curious person; I just didnt see the harm in it, he shared.

To add context, I catch up with strangers all the time.

Getting to know their story, understanding perspectives.

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Isnt that what we are here to do?

Jack added that he was genuinely curious because Jordan had very strong opinions about men.

She said she found the voice notes weird and the invitation to meet to be vague.

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She also sent them links to charities that support women and a podcast about the mens loneliness epidemic.

According to Jordan, the mens content focused on mental health.

The reason I decided to message Jordan Tan was to have a conversation, he explained.

Woman in a car wearing large sunglasses and a white tank top, gesturing as she talks about a “weird” offer.

I learn through conversation, other people, good or bad, thats just me.

I just wanted to try and spark a conversation with Jordan and learn from herexperiences.

Jordan, who recentlyresponded to Jacks apology videoon TikTok, toldBored Pandathat she has blocked the content creator.

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This incident represents an issue that is so much larger than him or me, she explained.

I find a lot of people struggle with this but its the easiest first step.

He wants to be better, and he said sorry.

Podcaster tearfully reacts during a discussion, holding a microphone, highlighting “Not All Men” theme.

Give him a break, said a separate user.

Wants to be a better person refuses available resources and information that can help him do that.

Its not OUR JOB TO EDUCATE MEN, somebody else stated.

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People criticized Jack for initially refusing to take No for an answer

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