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Livingwith someoneelse for the very first time can be a bit awkward.
After all, everyone has their own schedules and habits.
It takes a while to get in sync.
However, in some cases, thats extremely difficult because folks work very different hours.
Redditor u/Cucumbertrees asked the r/AITAH online community foradviceregarding a sensitive situation at home.
However, so that get some rest, he asks the author to leave the bed so he cansleepproperly.
There will always be at least some friction.
There will always be disagreements.
So, you better compromise on some things.
If theres a perfectly good bed in the bedroom, it would be a shame not to use it.
All of that prolonged physical contact can help deepen the bond between people.
On the other hand, nobodys forcing anyone to hug each other throughout the night.
If its too hot, you might always sleep without the covers on your side of the bed.
And you could invest in some earplugs and a blindfold if things are too noisy and bright.
Preferably with a good mattress and sheets and ergonomic pillows.
Working the same hours as your partner could help you both get on the same page.
However, there is a chance that the issues with the bed run deeper.
It has a massive effect on our overall physical and mental health.
Different people have different needs based on their inherited traits.
Some only need a few hours of sleep, while others need a bit more.
Someone who is sleep deficient might have trouble judging others emotions and reactions.
Meanwhile, theyre more prone to feeling frustrated and worried when around other people.
Those working night and rotating shifts are the most affected.
50% of night shift workers in thehealthcaresector reported sleeping 6 hours or less per day.
Check out the results:
