ThisRedditorsfamily, however, decided to make things infinitely more complicated.

Rather than helping him heal, they continued to spend time with his ex.

Yeah, its a lot.

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So the man turned to the internet for advice on how to handle it.

Read the full story and what others had to say below.

As if breakups werent already difficult enough, right?

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Of course, while that timeline offers hope, its important to remember that healing isnt a race.

Sarah Bren, a psychologist in Manhattan.

Moving on requires allowing yourself to feel the full range of emotions, both the painful and the positive.

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So, what can help?

Surround yourself with supportive friends and find moments of joy in the little things.

Go to a funny movie or go out for a nice meal with good conversation, suggests Dr. Bren.

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Little steps like these can help you find your footing and move forward.

Check out the results:

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