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A successful relationship is all about give and take.
Its no good if one side is always on the take, though.
In the interest of harmony, you should attempt to keep things balanced so nobody feels taken advantage of.
Leading up to the abortion, her boyfriend partied it up and offered her zero comfort or support.
Now shes turned to Reddit to ask if she should end therelationship.
While the couple both agreed to terminate, OP says shes still stressed out and upset.
She adds that, despite knowing she was struggling, herboyfriendstayed out drinking with his friend until 4AM.
It takes two to tango, something OPs boyfriend seems clueless about.
So, should OP kick him to the curb?
At least two of these red flags stick out like sore thumbs in OPs story.
In herarticlefor VeryWellMind, Anabelle Bernard Fournier writes that relationships end for a wide variety of reasons.
In this case, you have to learn how to break up with someone you love.
Fournier suggests a few tips on how to go about this in ahealthyway.
Firstly, acknowledge that it will cause pain on both sides.
The HelpGuide.orgwebsiteprovides some tips for grieving after a breakup.
Bored Pandareached out to licensed clinical social worker and authorRobert Taibbito get his take on the situation.
Check out the results:
