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Whether we realize it or not, food is a big part of romantic relationships.
So its understandable that redditorPotential-Trash-7890s first date stormed out of a restaurant when she realized he ate without her.
Bored Pandaalso had a chat with dating coachesEmily BucknellandHayley Quinnto learn more about dinner date behaviors.
Bored Panda reached out to the original poster, who kindly agreed to share more about his experience.
We were curious to know what inspired him to share his dating mishap.
Just out of curiosity to get some feedback.
I felt it was unreasonable to be upset at that, but apparently Im wrong, haha.
He told us that something like this had never happened to him before.
I have gone on dates and not eaten while my date has, and it hasnt been a problem.
The dates went very pleasantly.
And yes, there were second and third dates after that.
In some, I did eat with my date.
We were interested in finding out if the guy was acting rude on his dates part.
Bucknell also deemed it improper.
The expectation with a dinner date is that youll both be eating dinner together.
Its not going to leave the best impression.
If someones upset by you eating first, dont attempt to rationalize your decision to them.
Saying, Well, I was really hungry, isnt going to make them feel better.
Instead, try expressing, I can understand why that upset you.
I do really value our time together.
Bucknell adds that, in such a case, itd be a great time to share a dessert.
If theyre open, share a dessert!
Instead, say, Thursday is great, but can we do something active instead?
Choosing to go on non-dinner dates will enable you to build your bond and avoid any awkward conversations.
Im happy to be here, spending time with you.
Bucknell concludes that communication is key.
Interestingly, the response that the original poster got from Reddit altered his view of the situation.
However, you should eat when it’s crucial that you and are able to!
He signed off by saying, Its ok to be different.
Not every social convention needs to be followed.
If your intentions are pure, then the person should understand.
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