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One of the stresses of planning aweddingis finalizing the guest list without too muchdrama.

Some couples choose to let everyone bring a plus one.

And it wasnt because theyd broken up.

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The bride swiftlyrevokedher brothers plus one invitation and took it upon herself to invite his girlfriend instead.

Hes furious and the whole ordeal has caused a rift in the family.

This gives guests enough time to clear their schedules, organize childcare, and maketravelarrangements if necessary.

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On that note, most couples make their RSVP dates at least 2-3 weeks before thewedding.

If you expect your guests to mail back their RSVPs, experts say you should always include return postage.

Write their first names, their titles and their surnames or their full names.

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What the experts say about the +1 topic…

According to wedding planning website The Knot, you dont have to give every single guest a plus-one.

In an ideal world, all of your guests will be invited by name, notes the site.

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