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Everyone needs something to take the edge off.
For Reddit userAtreidesOne, that something isvideo games.
However, the mans wife recently told him that the hobby makes him look childish and less attractive.
So, he turned to the internet for help.
The good thing is that these processes are reversible.
But it takes work.
Reigniting the spark rarely starts with physical intimacy.
Instead, look at how you both are connecting emotionally and intellectually.
Does the relationship feel safe?
Do you laugh together?
Are you each there for the other in times of vulnerability and need?
Do you have emotional intimacy?
Next, increase experiences of fun, novelty, and entertainment together.
Reflect on [them] and express gratitude to each other for what you genuinely appreciate in your partner.
Try a new class or hobby.
Find a new funny show you both adore.
Make more effortful moments of physical contact, like holding hands, giving back rubs, and hugging.
So, it really can just be a way to spend time.
Attraction consists of a combination of a persons physical, mental, emotional, and intellectual attributes.
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