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Getting asked by your friend to support them at theirweddingis supposed to be a huge honor.

But for Reddit userNarrow-Guitar-4497, it has become a burden.

Which is a shame because he really wants to be there for the couple.

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However, the more he looks at the financial spreadsheets, the less sense they make.

His concerns are perfectly understandable.

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“Close-up of a bride holding a ‘Save the Date’ card in her hands, related to destination wedding struggles.

Groomsman struggles with affording a destination wedding in Costa Rica, feeling honored yet anxious about costs.

Text discussing costs of attending a destination wedding, highlighting resort and flight expenses.

Groomsman cost breakdown showing flights and hotel expenses for destination wedding.

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Text describing a groomsman struggling to afford a destination wedding due to high event fees and guest cost coverage.

Text discussing challenges faced by a groomsman who struggles with affording a destination wedding.

Text about groomsman’s struggle with affording a $2,400 destination wedding expense for three nights at a resort.

Text expressing a groomsman’s concern about affording a destination wedding in Costa Rica.

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Text discussing groomsman struggles with affording destination wedding costs like PTO, flights, and lodging.

Text about a groomsman’s financial concerns with attending a destination wedding.

Text discussing groomsman struggles with affording a destination wedding while wanting to be honest and supportive.

Wedding ceremony in a church, bride in a lace gown and groom at the altar, surrounded by guests.

Reddit comment exchange about groomsman concerns over affording a destination wedding fee.

Groomsman struggles with expensive destination wedding costs, questioning high expenses for guests.

Text from Reddit about groomsman unable to afford destination wedding costs at “Casa Bonita.

Text discussing challenges of affording destination weddings for groomsmen, highlighting financial burdens and guest choices.

Text screenshot discussing wedding costs and groomsman’s affordability struggles.

Text message conversation about a groomsman struggling to afford a destination wedding.

Text critique of expensive destination wedding burden on groomsmen.

Comment discussing groomsman struggles at an expensive destination wedding.

Reddit comment discussing groomsman struggle with affording a destination wedding.

Comment criticizing destination weddings for high costs, mentioning groomsmen struggles to afford attending.

Comment offering advice about financial concerns with a destination wedding, suggesting honesty with the groomsman.

Comment discussing an alternative plan due to groomsman struggles affording a destination wedding.

Text discussing groomsman struggles to afford destination wedding costs and suggesting to say no to demands.

Reddit comment discussing groomsman financial struggles with destination wedding costs.

Text discussing groomsman struggles with affording a destination wedding and the pressure from the bride and groom.

Text explaining why a groomsman struggles to afford attending a destination wedding.

Comment discussing financial regrets related to a costly event, highlighting groomsman’s struggles with destination wedding costs.

Comment discussing affordability concerns for groomsman at a destination wedding.