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Coping with a death in thefamilyis generally not easy.
Theres the emotional aspect ofgrief.
And there are the practicalities that need to be sorted.
She gave us her opinion on the matter.
While the grandmothers letter provides clarity, it also unveils a hidden truth that could deeply affect the family.
Sperling added that the granddaughters decision to honor her grandmothers wishes shows respect for the estate plan.
Transparency can sometimes heal wounds, but it may also open new ones, added the estate planning expert.
An important takeaway is the value of open communication while drafting an estate plan, she added.
Addressing family concerns early can prevent misunderstandings anddisputes.
Tammy McDonald is a life coach who specializes in grief and loss.
She recommends that people plan ahead and gift their loved ones with a letter that they can treasure forever.
McDonald suggests including things like I love you.
Or an apology for leaving them.
The letter isnt about you or your death.
In 2020, he was charging a flat fee of 10,000 Australian dollars for his unique services.
I dont just crash a funeral to let loose on the bad stuff.
Its just a matter (of) if you want to let it out or not, hesaid.
It could be good, bad, funny or sad, it doesnt matter what it is.
The Coffin Confessor sayshe once had to tell mourners at a bikers funeral that his client was gay.
And his lover was in the audience.
Not everyone agrees with spilling the beans after your death.
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