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There are moments when our friends make decisions that leave us puzzled.
We might love them dearly, but we certainly dont always agree with their choices.
Theyre our people, and well always have their backs.
This Redditor, however, found herself in a bind with her friends relationship choices.
One, in particular, she wasnt the biggest fan of.
The author has expressed concern about Stevens character, and the way he treats her.
Tensions escalated when Steven prioritized his own desires over Leilas for theirhoneymoon.
The intent was to expose any ulterior motives Steven might harbor.
Leila, under pressure, went along with the lie.
The plan backfired spectacularly.
Steven promptly called off thewedding, leaving Leila devastated and blaming Sarah for the failed relationship.
We want to support their choices but also be honest when we have concerns.
The author, in this case, clearly cared about her friend Leila and her well-being.
However, the attempt to expose potential gold-digging motives through an elaborate lie backfired.
It can be especially frustrating if you have concerns over your friendsrelationshipdynamici.e.
you think their partner isnt treating them rightand make the situation all the more hair-raising.
One reason you might not like your friends partner is because of how theyre treating your friend.
Leilas controlling fiance, Steven, displayed red flags throughout their five-year relationship.
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