As long as you actually get to keep all of your presents, that is.
As the giver of birthday presents, we give birthday presents to show love and friendship.
Look for gifts that will peak their interests.
you’re able to also ask the child directly.
Just remember that its the thought that counts when it comes to gifting.
Ive even seen registries sent to friends and family members… For a birthday!
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I get it.
Clutter inflows arent fun.
It can be overwhelming, the mom says.
But Brooke urges parents to think of their children first.
What do they love?
If someone asks for ideas, then give them very specific ideas, she suggests.
My child was once obsessed with building things out of Duct tape.
I actually told one friend that Duct tape in bright colors would be a welcomed gift.
What matters is, does your child like it?
Sometimes, parents will also have to deal with unwanted presents.
My children have received gifts over the years that were not appropriate, Brooke shared.
For example, one child got a book once where the material was a little mature for her.
When it comes to unwanted gifts, it can be a balancing act of sorts, Brooke says.
You never have to apologize for not wanting a gift and returning it.
You like what you like.
In the case of this post, one of the items in question was a poster.
Its possible posters on the wall wouldnt work in their home.
Its possible the parents HATE Minecraft and have been battling screen time addiction with their child, Brooke noted.
A little compassion, from both sides, would go a long way.
Its not my style.
Its her style, Brooke shared.
Finally, Brooke reminded us thatgift givingshould be a joyous experience, for both the giver and the receiver.
Recognize the person who gifted the item.
Tell them thank you.
Go as far as to actually write the gift-giver a thank you note!
(Thank you notes are a lost practice that should be brought back.)
You cant control what happens next, she shared.
If the gift is not appropriate, talk about it as a family, and communicate openly.
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