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Losing someone is always hard.
So, its human nature to find ways to cope with thegriefthat comes with the loss.
This young woman lost her twin years ago.
To this day, she soothes herself by watching his Instagram videos and pretending hes talking to her.
She acknowledges that it isnt the healthiest thing, but it helps her to stay grounded.
So, its no surprise a strong bond develops.
Imagine then how hard it is to lose someone so close to you.
It mightfeellike a part of you is missing.
After all, its basically a double loss both of a person and part of yourself.
On there he posted content about his life and his singing.
After his passing, the accountwas left untouched.
Well, thats what we assume, since it wasnt deleted and the author doesnt mentionmemorialization.
So, the woman liked going to this untouched account and watching her brothersvideos.
She acknowledges that it wasnt healthy, but it became a habit for her.
There are manywaysto deal with grief.
As we saw, the OP has a coping mechanism of watching videos.
This reorganization can change how your brain responds to distressingmemories.
The goal is reprocessing the traumatic event so it no longer controls your life.
Well, we arent sure whether the OP took any therapeutic measures to deal with her grief.
We only know about her coping mechanism, which annoyed her boyfriend.
One evening, she noticed that her brothers account was blocked on herphone.
It wasnt possible to get it back since no one could log on to it and accept her re-follow.
This was very far from the truth they were simplysiblingswho were close because they were twins, nothing more.
Netizens agreed with such a sentiment and advised her to get out.
So, she listened to them and her gut and kicked the man out.
He breached her trust and then proceeded to tell her she was overreacting.
Its good that she has a piece of her brother she misses so much to deal with her grief.
Living grief is tough and its good that she has something to help her.
Maybe one day shell be able to live without these videos, but no one should rush this decision.
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