Strong friendships can survive anything.
Thats a different beast that can shake up even the closest bonds.
One minute youre swapping memes and planning brunch and the next, its radio silence.
When life gets messy, even the best offriendscan struggle to stick together.
Well, that was our OPs (original poster) bond with her best friend.
But things got complicated for this duo when the two besties gotpregnantat the same time.
Double the excitement, right?
Unfortunately, the OPs friend suffered a miscarriage just before her 12-week scan.
She didnt want to rub salt in the wound.
I can understand why she kept things quiet.
If it were me, I wouldve probably done the same thing.
But, man, sometimes no matter what you do, it just isnt enough.
After her miscarriage, the OPs friend asked for some space.
No ultrasound pics, no baby updates and no bump selfies.
Basically, no reminders that she was missing out.
But when your bestie stops replying altogether, starts canceling every plan and even unfollows you onInstagram?
It starts feeling like youre losing her faster than you might say baby shower.
I dont know about you, but I think Id start freaking out at this point.
However, the pain is very real.
We might lack the energy to engage with others or simply dread having to revisit difficult conversations repeatedly.
Grief has no expiration date.
So, whats a gal to do when her bestie has basically vanished?
Even after 4 months after the baby arrived, the silence is deafening.
The OP is left heartbroken.
Shes wondering if their lifelong friendship is officially over.
Sounds rough, right?
It is, for sure.
Its probably easier said than done, right?
Its tough to tell if this lifelong friendship can really bounce back.
What do you think of this story?
Do you think this friendship can survive, or should the OP prepare to move on?
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