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Aweddingis a celebration not just for the couple, but also their entire families.

However, in a recent Reddit post,Creativecloud19shared a difficult dilemma she faced while planning her big day.

Colemanthinksthere are two roads toward reconciliation.

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The first includes reckoning with the issues that led to estrangement.

The second path requires the wounded party accepting the inherent flaws of the person theyve been estranged from.

They just want family and they dont want to continue to be estranged, Coleman says.

Bride walking with her mom in a garden, both in elegant dresses, highlighted by natural sunlight.

Maybe the Redditor and her mom are still at a crossroads?

Check out the results:

Text discussing telling mom she won’t walk bride down aisle; includes wedding planning details.

Text discussing bridal party preferences and aisle choices.

Text discussing non-traditional aisle walk with both parents instead of biological mother.

Text about resolving differences with mom and her recent frequent presence in life.

Young woman comforts an older woman, expressing concern about walking down the aisle.

Text discussing a decision about wedding plans and who will walk the bride down the aisle.

Text about adoptive parents walking someone down the aisle instead of their biological mom.

“Flipped Out, Started Crying”: Bio Mom Freaks Out About Daughter’s Wedding Plans

Reddit post discussing wedding aisle choices and financial priorities.

Comment about who should walk down the aisle, with a response about legal issues regarding a stepdad.

Reddit comments discussing family judgment and wedding decisions, focusing on mom’s role in the ceremony.

Comment supporting choice about who walks you down the aisle at your wedding.

Comment discussing family dynamics related to a wedding decision on who walks the bride down the aisle.

Text screenshot discussing wedding traditions and parental roles in ceremonies.

Comment advises that it’s your ceremony and choice; mom’s feelings aren’t your responsibility.

Reddit comment discussing who should walk a person down the aisle, with supportive advice.

Reddit comment discussing decision on who walks bride down the aisle.

Reddit comment about choosing who will walk you down the aisle at your wedding.

Reddit comment discussing family influence on wedding decisions.

Reddit comment discussing boundaries and parental roles related to wedding planning.

Comment discussing manipulative behavior, questioning whether mom deserves to walk her child down the aisle, ending with “Congrats!!

Reddit comment discussing the choice of a mother walking her child down the aisle at a wedding.

Reddit comment discussing a mother’s return and wedding plans, questioning post-wedding living arrangements.

Text discussing decision about who will walk the author down the aisle at their wedding.

Text response to a question about a mom not walking her child down the aisle.

Reddit comment supporting decision about who walks down the aisle, mentioning gratitude and deserving parents.

Comment discussing adoption, wedding planning, and personal boundaries in family relationships.

Reddit comment discussing reasons for excluding a mom from walking down the aisle.

Reddit comment discussing a mother’s role in a wedding aisle situation, mentioning uninviting her from the wedding.

Reddit comment discussing a mother not walking her child down the aisle due to past adoption.

Text screenshot discussing a wedding without a proposal; mentions walking down the aisle.