It becomes unhealthy when its in the form of put-downs or rude behavior toward the other person.
This can often be a sign of old resentments or pent-up anger.
The OP had reached a point in her relationship where she could no longer deal with Alexs constantdemandsand criticisms.
According to theGottman Institute, couples who share constant negative interactions or criticisms are likelier to get divorced.
It can also help a great deal to go to couples therapy and work through the situation.
It definitely seems like things are looking up for her.
If youve got any weird or interesting breakup stories of your own, were all ears.
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