Knowing this, Reddit userKeyHelicopter6678was happy to take in her brother when he lost his job.
After all, thats what family does.
Boundaries can also become blurred, Dr. Ilene added.
For example, one sibling staying out late or being inattentive to household needs might create tension.
The fact that many arent discussing financial matters with their siblings also doesnt help.
After that, things get less clear.
Generally, respondents felt that the shelf life of a free visit is about three to five days.
Of course, it feels like the terms for family members should be different.
Start by choosing a calm, private moment to talk when emotions arent running high.
Use I statements to express your feelings without sounding accusatory.
Be specific about whats not working and offer potential solutions, Dr. Ilene added.
If its time to end the living arrangement, frame it as necessary for both of you.
I want to see to it we preserve our relationship, and I feel this will help us both.
The therapist highlighted that ultimately setting boundaries is a healthy and vital part of any relationshipespecially when sharing space.
The goal is to create an understanding where both parties needs are recognized and addressed, Dr. Ilene said.
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