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Favoritism within afamilyusually does more harm than good.

A man experienced such treatment from his folks, who wereheavily biasedtoward his sister.

Hed accepted it his entire life, but the breaking point came when they gave her their old house.

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Feeling hurt and left out, the author declined to do a favor for his parents.

However, studies mention several causes, one being improper stress management.

Its also more common among families where the parents are divorced.

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

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Any form of favoritism may make the less favored childfeel lonelygrowing up or, worse,abuse illicit substances.

In effect, favouring is like giving one child a reward while another is punished.

How do we free ourselves of these negative emotions?

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

According to family therapistMichele Levin, genuinely validating their childs feelings should be step one, followed by problem-solving.

Pediatrician and mother of fourDr.

But if all else fails, Henry suggestsseeking professional help.

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

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“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

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“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

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“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

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“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

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“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

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“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister

“Family Comes First”: Man Refuses To Help Parents After They Give Their House To Sister